I once worked with a church that was experiencing some difficulties in relationships within the church and with the pastor. I was told I probably would only need to facilitate one or two meetings. My assignment ended two years later, after about a dozen meetings and as many Zoom calls. What was accomplished? It is hard to say. The pastor is still there. Most of the members of the congregation remain. So too do many of the hard feelings. One of the reasons the church never was able to heal was that the members did not have shared values. The Old Testament minor prophet Amos asked, “3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” The answer is no. Two will not walk together unless they agree to do so. The church members were not walking together because they disagreed on an essential point. What was the crucial point? They disagree on this question: “Who is Jesus?”
Some people in the church believe deeply that Jesus is the Son of God and their Savior. Some others believed Jesus is possibly the Son of God, but the gospels and the New Testament letters describing Jesus were unreliable, not the Word of God. Therefore, Jesus may be just a good guy and a good teacher of morals, like others who came before and after him. Still others offered a wildly different view. In one meeting, a woman said her husband was not feeling well and could not be at the meeting to speak for himself. However, she said of her husband that he is probably the single largest financial contributor to the church; that this is his church, and he wants to see it flourish, and he is an atheist. I think you get the point. The church members were not walking together. At best, they were going around in circles like bathwater going down the drain. Sadly, I do not think the church is unique in its conflicted membership.
Today's New Testament reading from the Apostle John's second letter dealt with conflicted situations. The letter also addressed the topics we discussed last week: truth and love. Last week, we saw that truth and love can bring some tension. Today, we will see that in another context, namely within the church, truth and love create the soil for a wonderful setting of peace. In that setting, we seek truth and love within the church to be at peace. What was it that John said about truth and love, and peace?
John wrote, “1 The elder, (John) to the lady chosen by God (that is a church) and to her children, (church members) whom I love in the truth—and not I only, but also all who know the truth— 2 because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever: 3 Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Father’s Son, will be with us in truth and love” (2 John 1-3). We see three key things in the opening verses of John’s letter.
First, John was writing a letter to a church that he had not been able to visit for some time, calling the church “a lady chosen by God” with its members “children” of God. John’s letter was clear. It is written to a church for the benefit of the church members. It is not written to the world. Therefore, the words here provide guidance and encouragement for Christians. This letter is not for nonbelievers. It is for us.
Second, John said that love and truth can be in harmony within the church. John began this teaching by saying that he and all other Christians were united to this church and its members because the truth, God, was found within them. John’s love for the members of the church was not based on sentimentality, family origin, good looks, or anything other than the church members believed Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing, they had life in Jesus’ name (John 20:30). The church members held fast to the truth and agreed to walk together. John, also a believer, said he and all other believers in Jesus Christ loved this church because they were walking together with them. I trust you can see why that situation I described with that conflicted church existed. Not all the members had accepted the truth. Therefore, love and truth were in tension rather than harmony. When the church is comprised of the truth and worldliness, including atheism, there can be no harmony. Why cannot the church and worldliness coexist? John gave us that reason in the third point of the opening of his letter.
John said, “2 because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever: 3 Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Father’s Son, will be with us in truth and love” (2 John 2-3). John said that because the truth is found only in the believer and the church, God gives three things to the believer and the church. These three are not given to the nonbeliever or the world. In that order, those three God-given things are grace, mercy, and peace.
What is grace? Grace is God's unmerited and undeserved kindness. Grace is God’s expression of love received in gratitude as a gift. Grace is nothing that can be earned or bought. It is gifted without merit. God’s grace is found in Jesus Christ because God’s grace is everything a holy and righteous God does for sinners that they do not deserve. We did not deserve Jesus being sent to us. God sent Jesus as an expression of grace. John wrote in the opening words of the Gospel of John, “14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth” (John 1:14). And “12 To all who did receive him [Jesus], to those who believed in his [Jesus] name, he [Jesus] gave the right to become children of God— 13 children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God” (John 1:12-13). Grace from God is the starting point. God’s grace reshapes our lives because accepting God’s grace removes us from the world.
What follows from God’s grace is mercy. Mercy, like grace, is also unmerited. You cannot earn mercy. In Hebrew, mercy is granted only within a relationship between the grantor and the receiver. Mercy is not given or dispensed in some random or unknowing manner. Mercy is given to those who are known. John pointed out that having been received unto God through God’s grace and being known to Him, God grants mercy and frees us from sin and the penalty of sin. Having been forgiven, we know God because He is within us, and we are within Him. God’s mercy reshapes our lives because accepting God’s mercy removes us from sin, the condemnation of sin, and puts us into an intimate and forgiven relationship with God.
From God’s grace and God’s mercy comes God’s peace. Jesus said peace comes from Him. “27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid” (John 14:27). Peace, in the Hebrew context of the time of Jesus, emphasized wholeness and well-being in life. With such peace comes safety, rest, and the absence of hostility. We are no longer enemies of God. One commentator said, “Grace is God doing for us what we do not deserve, mercy is his not doing to us what we do deserve, and peace is God giving us what we need based upon his grace and mercy. The word order is significant. God's grace is always prior. Mercy and peace flow from it” (Akin, Daniel L. 1,2,3 John: An Exegetical and Theological Exposition of Holy Scripture, B&H Publishing Group, 2001).
So God’s truth, when received, brings God’s grace, mercy, and peace given in love to the believer. Having been so nourished by God, believers can then love other believers. This is why the church I spoke about at the beginning of the message remains in conflict. Not everyone is a believer who has received God’s grace, mercy, and peace, and therefore lacks the capacity for love like God. This is another reason I will not conduct a wedding ceremony for believers and nonbelievers. The believer has received God’s grace, mercy, and peace, but their nonbelieving partner has not. The couple may eventually have a worldly successful marriage, but they cannot have a marriage as contemplated by God because peace will always be missing. Truth and love will always be in tension. That may sound harsh, but it is not. Holding truth and love together in harmony is a blessing for believers only because, in love, God has given the believer grace, mercy, and peace.
As we return to John’s letter, John reminds the church and its members that loving one another is essential to the Christian life. Christians loving Christians because they are Christians is an indispensable condition of faith. Jesus commanded his followers to love one another. John reminds the recipients of Jesus’ command. “4 It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us. 5 And now, dear lady, I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another. 6 And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love” (2 John 4-6). I am guessing that some people in church are a bit weary of hearing the words, “love one another.” It is said often. I have repeated it several times in the last few sermons. The phrase “love one another,” appears in one form or another 19 times in the New Testament and is expressed by Jesus twice and then written about by Paul 8 times, Peter 3 times, and John 6 times. Christians loving other Christians is the primary way nonbelievers would know who is a Christian, and is the primary way Christians show their love for God. I am concerned that the sharp distinction drawn by Jesus and in the New Testament about love within the Christian community has become muted and hard to see within the Christian community today. Far too often, the mark of a Christian is thought to be a cross pendant around someone's neck or occasional attendance at a church. Those, dear friends, are not the standards for Christians from the Bible. If we want our witness to the world to matter, we must love one another. We can love one another because we have received God's grace, mercy, and peace. Love one another.
John presented one final point: a warning and a call for self-protection. John said, “7 I say [all] this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist” (2 John 7). We spoke about John’s concern here a few weeks ago. Within the church, an idea began to form and spread. The idea was that Jesus was the Son of God, Jesus was divine, but that Jesus was never human, and, therefore, Jesus never died. There was no virgin birth. The person called Jesus only appeared to be human, but was not human. Jesus did not go to the cross; someone else died on the cross in Jesus’ place, with the leading candidate for that role going to Simon of Cyrene, who the gospels said at one point was made to carry Jesus’ cross. The blood of Simon, or perhaps someone else, was shed on the cross, but not Jesus's blood. This idea was born because people could not accept that God would die for his people. The technical term for this heresy is Docetism, which was tearing at the foundation of the early Christian church.
John said, “8 Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked for, but that you may be rewarded fully. 9 Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. 10 If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching [the teaching of Christ], do not take them into your house or welcome them. 11 Anyone who welcomes them shares in their wicked work” (2 John 8-11). John made it clear that those who claim to be Christian or seek to be part of a church congregation but are not believers, or worse, preach anything other than Christ crucified, should be denied entry. The purity of the church in matters of doctrine is essential. The Apostle Paul said similarly when he wrote, “14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols?” (2 Corinthians 6:14-16a).
Does this mean nonbelievers cannot come to church? Certainly, not. What it means is that nonbelievers cannot become part of the church. Why? Because nonbelievers lack God’s grace, mercy, and peace. Nonbelievers lack God within them and are not within God. Nonbelievers will not influence the church and its members toward Christian ways because those ways are not found within them. Nonbelievers do not possess the truth; therefore, love and truth are not in harmony but in tension. If not resolved by submission and obedience to God, that tension will lead to stress and strife within the church, the body of Christ.
John wanted the church and its members to understand that God’s truth and love can be an excellent and harmonious relationship. The church was designed and intended to be a collection of believers gathered to encourage each other in the faith. Each believer has received grace and mercy from God, making all equal before God. They are all a loved child of God. Because they are and know they are loved children of God, there ought to be peace in their gathered lives. This is what we all want. The natural consequence of being at peace with God is loving other Christians just because they are Christians. A natural result of loving other Christians is showing love for God, who commanded that we love one another. That love is not only one that encourages individual Christians, but it is also protective by keeping the nonbelievers from joining the fellowship of Christians. There is much to think about in John’s very short letter, especially for those of us who have family and friends who are nonbelievers. Let us pray.